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working on: side projects

keepcalm.pngAh, but a man's reach should exceed his grasp, or what's a heaven for? — Robert Browning

Interviewing Maira Kalman for the Inspiration Boards Blog was a thrill.

The blog is one of my many side projects. It helps me stay focused to have a lot of little fires to maintain.

If I just had one project — albeit my main project — in front of me, I would go clean a closet or organize a drawer. At the end of a month I'd be very organized but my project would languish.

Side projects give me something to fiddle with that keep me in front of the laptop and exert a gentle pressure back to my main project. They are like secondary moons whose collective gravitational pull keeps me in orbit around my main project.

Because it's a side project, I don't have much fear about failing with it. Failed side projects get swept under the rug or out the door and forgotten, replaced with shiny, new side projects.

Because it's a side project, I don't worry too much about preplanning it to death before I get the job done. The point of a side project is to always have something ready to slap a coat of paint on or drive around the block. If you've ever known someone who restores vintage cars, they typically have a gorgeous — if nonfunctional — sports car in the garage and they drive around in a beat-up Chevy. My sports car is my main project; I drive around the Interwebs in my side projects.

There's no downside to the side project. If you succeed, it's very encouraging and invigorates your "real" work. If you fail, it's always a learning experience — you can't fail without learning something — and you can apply that to your "real" work.

Too many times, we artificially hold ourselves back from our true capabilities. We set "realistic" goals. We hedge things a bit so we can avoid the sting of failure.

Side projects allow me to simultaneously extend my grasp and get used to failing and rebounding. It makes me more confident, because I learn that failure really isn't so bad. It makes me ambitious, because success is so fun.

When I asked Maira Kalman for an interview, the worst thing that could have happened was, she could have said no. A good reminder that most people are nice, and you can't achieve anything if you don't try.

For many people (most people?), side projects would probably simply function as a distraction keeping them from working on their most important goal. They dilute your attention. However, they also dilute your fear, and they gang up to help attract you back to your desk and get you in work mode. It's easy to procrastinate with one big project; it's a lot harder with a handful of mini-projects. There's always something bite-size to work on, and then you're in work mode and you might as well look at your main project.

Bite-size successes whet your appetite for the main course. And .. that's about it for metaphors for me this morning. Have a great day!

The world stands aside to let any man pass who knows where he is going. — Spencer's Mountain

Posted on Tuesday, March 25, 2008 at 08:21AM by Registered CommenterLori in | Comments22 Comments

Reader Comments (22)

This was awesome.
March 25, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterTeri
P.S. I was just talking about Spencer's Mountain a couple of days ago! Ha!
March 25, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterTeri
reach for the stars, clayboy!!
March 25, 2008 | Registered CommenterLori
loved your interview with Maira.

At least once a month I debate packing up the blog, overthinking if it is "right or wrong" as if it could be either...loved this post. Should carry me through at least another month!
March 25, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterDeirdre
I have that poster hung right on my living room wall. Some days it is my mantra.
March 25, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterHeather
Ah, nicely framed. Blogging is a side project for me too but I have mused often lately how much it has opened me up to do and seek more interesting "real" career opps. Also I find it sparking my creativity and letting me play around in areas that fascinate me without, as you put it, much pressure or expectation. All this from something that I could just call a time suck! Didn't know Maira Kalman, intrigued by her and looking fwd to checking a bunch of her kids' books out of the library.
March 25, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterMamaBird

side projects prevent me from doing EVERYTHING.

quit shaming me with your superpowers!!!!!!!!!!


::is bitter and envious::

::and skeered of success::


xoxo

March 25, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterestea
sweet holy cupcakes: i'm a side project.
March 25, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterestea
deirdre - sometimes i think we get into a mindset that everything we do we have to do 100% and excel at, when that's not really true .. i want the kids to relax and play and not think they have to excel at everything they try (perfectionism again!), and i want to know that for myself, too. ;^)

heather - it's a good one. ;^)

mamabird, i agree completely - and i know you will love m.k.'s children's books - they are awesome.

thank you, estea, for your first comment - and your second comment made me laugh out loud!
March 25, 2008 | Registered CommenterLori
Side projects. There are the ones that I do and the ones I do in my mind. I am so filled with ideas!! They keep me fresh and open to new things I seem to be more productive when I am busy. Side projects are sort of necessary to keep me going.
March 27, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterkristen
kristen - lol - i have entirely-in-my-mind side projects, too! those are some of my most time-consuming ones!
March 27, 2008 | Registered CommenterLori
I've read this in awe for the second time now. Can't really top the comment by Estea, who's position (in reality) I must admit I share. Still, I try to justify my side projects with your rationale, Lori. Loved so much of what you said here. Always an inspiration, you are.
March 30, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterMolly Irwin
lol, molly - and thank you! :^*
March 30, 2008 | Registered CommenterLori
side projects - now I think I like this term and will be using it to cover many thaings that I spend my time doing. as we speak looking at this site and thinking about art projects with Alice is a side project to the design work I have on the kitchen table that I must finish today before I head off to Anne's class tea and pack for hols - all side projects to the main aim of the day which was to get to my studio for work until Alice became ill - another side project today

side projects i am going to let my friends know about these........its a tidy way to explain all sorts of goings on Jane x

love your blog lori
April 2, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterJane, London
ps gave this poster to my husband for his 40th have hung it in the hall before we all leave the house we see it jane
April 2, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterJane, London
lol, jane - yes, it lends things an air of importance, doesn't it? (and thank you so much :^*)

which color poster did you get? ;^)

xo
April 2, 2008 | Registered CommenterLori
The way you explained the "side projects" thing is fascinating. Rings true for me.
April 2, 2008 | Unregistered Commentervictoria
red because my walls are "borrowed light" a sort of dim blue colour from Farrow and Ball and red and pale blue is a colour combination i love
Jane x
April 3, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterJane, London
victoria, i've wondered if i shouldn't feel guilty for (1) rationalizing my inability to focus on one main goal and (2) encouraging others to do the same! ;^)

it is true for *me*, though - my side projects definitely keep me up and moving around that main project, and it all works together to keep me moving forward.

jane - red is my favorite! :^) and i love tomato red with pale blue also!
April 3, 2008 | Registered CommenterLori
just discovered your blog after visiting inspiration board for a while. quite a nice find! maira kalman is great, thanks for giving us the interview.
April 3, 2008 | Unregistered Commentersandra

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