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trip journals

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When we travel, the boys each get

  • a fresh, new, smallish journal (one we expect they will nearly fill by the end of the trip)
  • a pencil holder, preferably large with a zipper
  • two regular pencils, a pencil sharpener (that keeps the shavings inside!), and soft white eraser
  • a set of colored pencils
  • pens (Pilot or Sharpie, in different colors)
  • safety scissors
  • glue stick

jour7.jpgWe have experimented with bringing rolls of tape, but it gets all linty and the boys end up using it to tape their entire heads or their arms or the car windows. Or all three. We've also experimented with bringing mini-staplers, but they jam so often that I spend all my time digging at them and we end up with little colored staples stuck in the floor.

The white erasers are far superior to pink or yellow rubber erasers at erasing thoroughly without making a mess. The boys are also fond of the traditional pencil-top erasers; if those are soft and new, they work well.

The trip journal serves many purposes.

It's the best, cheapest souvenir of any vacation. You can't look at that plastic back-scratcher and remember when your brother accidentally pulled the curtain rod off the wall at the Holiday Inn while your mother was changing into her bathing suit, but your childish HA HA scratching out of the story (complete with line drawing of mom's face) will forever dredge up that pearl of a memory, whole and complete.

It's something to do, either in the car or in the tent/camper/hotel room. When you're booorrrrrred, Mom can suggest you work on your journal. Every place we go, the boys are alert for free brochures and newspapers that they can cut up and glue into their journals later. This keeps their reflexes sharp. Sometimes they are barely in the front door before they are fighting each other to snatch up the free brochure on the counter, causing the sleepy person behind the desk to startle and shrink back in .. admiration for their enthusiasm, I'm sure.

jour2.jpgThey write and draw in their journals, paste in postcards and stickers, copy maps, play games, etc. For this latest trip, I sprang for Moleskine journals for each boy. The Moleskines are great for trip journals because they have a pocket in the back to hold random ticket stubs, postcards, etc. You can also just glue an envelope onto the last page of any old journal to provide a catch-all.

There are always blank pages at the end of their journals when the trip is over. I print out their favorite photos from the trip and they glue those in the back, usually adding their own captions.

The journals end up being a very truthful representation of their trip -- with a focus on what was important to them (meals) and not what was important to me (once-in-a-lifetime shared experiences). At one point during this trip I walked out of the laundromat at Yellowstone National Park wearing our hamper on my head, to the great amusement of the boys, who ran ahead of me to take pictures of this momentous event. An amused woman passing by said, "Ah, special vacation memories!" That's right. The things the boys will remember most about this trip were the pancakes we had at the Old Mill Inn and when I wore the hamper on my head. And both of those memories are in their journals.

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Posted on Monday, September 24, 2007 at 12:02PM by Registered CommenterLori in , , , , | Comments5 Comments

Reader Comments (5)

I love your blog. It will take me some time to catch up but I plan on reading it all. My children are grown but I have a little niece who comes over to stay about once a week that your advice would be helpful for in a year or so. I also love your photos and your home. I have home envy. I added a link to here on my blog.
September 25, 2007 | Unregistered Commentertonya
Thank you so much, Tonya. You are too kind.

It won't take you *too* long to catch up, as we haven't had too many posts since we took down the old blog. But I'll hope to keep you busy here! :^)
September 25, 2007 | Registered CommenterLori
I did the same thing when I was little and we traveled out west. I can remember finding buffalo hair and making a special pocket it for it in my journal, and the matchbooks, and magnets,and brochures. This brought back great memories and a great reminder of things I want to do with my kids, too!
September 26, 2007 | Unregistered Commentermolly
terrifc ideas, as always. (an aside: i have a box of journals in my basement. okay, BOXES. the husband has instructions to burn them ASAP if something - God forbid - ever happens to me. just cause i wrote them as a teenager and very young immature adult and nobody really wants to read that, do they??)

;)
September 26, 2007 | Unregistered Commenterestea
molly, what a great idea. the boys *could* have collected buffalo hair, since every buffalo hide they touched seemed to be molting. ;^)

matchbooks!! i remember picking those up as souvenirs when i was little; now you never see them. thank you for sharing your memories!

young son did lose two teeth on this trip, and at one point i caught him rubbing blood into his journal (!) so he could remember how exciting it was to lose the second tooth. lol

estea, i came so close to destroying my high school journals, but now i'm glad i didn't. the older i get the more hilarious (and less embarrassing) they are. the idea of anyone reading them launched me into paroxysms of humiliation in my 20s, but now i imagine the boys will love reading them someday and seeing their great and powerful mother reduced to a whining ninth-grader. ;^) (and the poetry! ack!)
September 26, 2007 | Registered CommenterLori

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